Not only are companies and organizations searching and reviewing possible candidates through social medias, but also so are colleges and families. I have heard through the grapevine that an advisor at Ohio
University looks up her advisees on Facebook to learn more about them. I never thought that teachers and advisors would use Facebook to look at us but now I wonder what they saw and what they really think about me.
Have you heard about the advisor from The Ohio State University who was caught running a brothel? Well he was my friend’s advisor and they were friends. His brothel was run through Craigslist. It just makes me wonder why did he want to be her friend? I know he probably did it because it was easy to get a hold of her but so is e-mail. I just find it unnecessary and a threat to you to be friends with people you do not know well and cannot trust. Hopefully my friend deleted him right away. It is just not someone she should associate herself with.
Not long ago my roommate got a request from a young man asking to be friends on Facebook. After several requests and denials, she decided to message him asking if she knew him. He replied that he was working with a music group who was thinking about coming to Athens, Ohio (Ohio University) to shoot their music video. The group was a big name so she became suspicious. After several e-mails and “stalking” of the man the conversations stopped. My roommate wanted some form of authenticity and he had nothing. All his friends were females. This is just another reason why you should be careful of whom you talk to online.
It is a good idea to deny people you do not have a good relationship with. Lately I have been getting requests from people that I have no connection with… some are from out of this country. Why do they want to be my friend? I am sure its not to boost their number of friends. I continuously deny requests. I am afraid that these people are working with a company that I have applied to for a job. Even though I do not have any embarrassing and/or inappropriate pictures (that I believe) on the web, I still do not want any affiliation with them. My advice: check your settings and limit your friends. Be careful. You never know what is going to happen.
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